Thursday, January 22, 2009

Obama...OBAMA..ObAmA!!!!




Obama mania has spread across the country. For those who are not fans of Obama, I am sorry...but I really love this man....and this is why.........

Growing up in a small town of 3500 people, we read about racism...we didn't live it. We didn't experience it. Occasionally growing up, you may go to Walmart and see someone who does not look like you. But to average St. James, MO, citizens everyone looks the same.

When I moved to college, I finally was exposed to other races, cultures, and ethnic groups. One of the most painful memories was my families reaction to me dating inter-racial. I don't see color. I don't know why color matters to people. We are taught as children that it is the inside of a person that counts not the outside, yet most of my family shunned me and outcasted me for dating out of my race. I stood my ground and dated who I wanted to, but I knew deep down that my family did not approve.

And now as an adult, I am surrounded by minorities. I bought a house in a predomiatly African American and Hispanic population. My neighbors who are Hispanic mean the world to me. It is so hard to see their daily struggles as they are constantly discriminated against for being Mexican.... How can this be in a world full of color, diversity, and uniqueness? How can people think one race is better than any other?

The historic event that unfolded in this Country on Tuesday January 21st, 2009, brings tears to my eyes. I am so proud of our Country. I can't even explain how I feel. I sometimes think that I maybe I should have been born in the 1950's and 1960's so I could have taken a stand for Civil Rights. Obama's presidency doesn't cure the race issue in America, but it is so wonderful to have a man of color in the highest office of the United States. To see pictures of American's hugging in all colors....to see the Inaugration completly full of millions of people.

Next, why I voted for Obama.... Although there are some views that I do not totally agree with. I am for the people and so is Obama. He is for immigration and so am I. Again refer back to the Hispanic neighbors that I have who wonder daily what life in America would be if their entire family were citizens. It's hard to think that one day my sister could be shipped back/deported and for what? The land of the free.... the land of opportunity... these people are only looking for the same things that we look for in life. I do like Obama's health plans, economy stimulation checks, pulling the troops out of a war that Bush made millions off of, and many other views.

With Obama there is hope. Out of all the Presidents in the United States that I have seen in my lifetime, Obama is just like you and me. He is real...not fithly rich like Bush. And his speeches are amazing. I have never turned the channel or turned off the tv while listening to Obama. He has such amazing public speaking skills.

It is so wonderful to hear kids say that they want to grow up and be the next President. I know Obama will be tested and the next four years will show exactly what type of effect his Presidency has on America.

As for today, I am proud to be an American. I am proud to display my flag outside. I believe fully in Obama's presidency and not just because of his color, but for the type of man that he has shown to be.

God Bless America!

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Road Trip to Dallas




Dallas, Texas, how I love thee! Dallas is such a great city! With 6 days notice, I took off a half day work, and Elisha and I went to Dallas for the weekend. I do love living spur of the moment! And I know that one day if I have a family, that I will have to be more grounded, so I live for the moment now.




While in Dallas, I stayed with my former roommate Cody! He is such an amazing person. He is most definatly my closest male friend. Out of all the people that I have met at SBU, Cody and I created the strongest connection. He sets huge goals, and attempts to achieve them, and most of the time is successful at that. He doesn't settle for less. He is like a brother to me and also a role model. He is very level headed, and I am happy to have him in my life! He has all the great qualities that I look for in a future husband... ( I am sure he will enjoy that comment...)



Elisha was my roadtrip buddy! Together Elisha and I have traveled all over the place. We studied overseas in London, England. We have been to Paris, Chicago, STL, Tulsa, Dallas, Las Vegas, and who knows where we will go next. Elisha is my most grown up friend. She is level headed, independent, intelligent, and beautiful. She is the one friend that I met at SMSU that I have formed the deepest connection with. Elisha has taught me alot about life and being myself.

As you can see, today I am tributing my friends and those who influence me on a daily basis. You never know when you may make a difference in someone's life. I am so grateful to be blessed with so many fabulous friends.

New Years



This New Years was spent with one of my best friends. Ms. Renee drove up from Bolivar, MO, to ring in the New Year with me. Although Renee and I met in 2005, it seems like we have known each other forever. The world works in mysterious ways. Ms. Renee was Jaden's nanny in Virginia from 2005-2007. Renee and I were both in Bolivar, MO, at the same time and never met, wayyyy back in 1999 - 2000. Then I moved to Springfield and transferred schools, where she was friends with my upstairs neighbor from 2000 - 2003, and yet we still never met. Although we live miles, hours, and often states away. I am so glad she is in my life!




Above Renee and I are cheesin' for the camera. We always act crazy together and always create a scene where ever we travel!